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My experience of learning dance, actually dancing and
teaching dance has given me some very simplistic but valuable inputs …
and very often these are not just limited to the dance floor but can
more often than not be applied to life itself.
I have learned most of what I am going to speak about by
the trial and error technique…while some lessons have been easy some
others have been…well, expensive. And it is these simple but important
truths, which I shall try to share with you …(Lets leave the mechanics
of spinning and contra body positions for the experts)
"I want to be a great dancer who
is sought-after by others dancers"
I mean how wrong could you go with this one. Everybody
wants to be this. Including Me. I have witnessed some very
average-looking people being really in demand and it isn’t always
because of their charming personalities. So lets actually try to see as
to what constitutes a great dancer. I have always asked my self this
question and the answer I have got is this…lets imagine a man who is
excellent with timing, moves and does everything by the book. In fact
very often he desires so much that the spotlight shine on him that he
very callously forgets that there may be a timid and not-so-experienced
dancer in his arms. He is excellent on his own but his partner doesn’t
feel good in his arms…
Would she come back to have another dance with him… I
don’t know…because everybody essentially wants to look and feel good out
there…and she DIDN’T feel good the last time she danced with him. On the
other hand we could have an inexperienced, off-time and technically BAD
dancer who essentially does nothing well apart from being a little
sensitized to you and hence make u feel like a million bucks. The
partner couldn’t care if his free arm-styling was good enough to make
him win the world Latin championship as long as when his free arm went
back to her shoulder-blade, it gently caressed her and his nails didn’t
sink into her skin.
Simple. You are dancing to give pleasure to both
yourself and your partner. Your partner is the more important person
here because if your partner isn’t enjoying it…trust me you wont enjoy
it for too long…or even better you may not be there for too long. You
are not there to look good by yourself…you are there to look good as a
team…Good dancing and a good dancer is not about how great you fared in
your bronze level class championship …but how wanted and important you
can make your partner feel on the floor…After that…dance the bolero on
flamenco music for all I care…you are home. |
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Practical Tips on Applying all this: |
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know all that lecturing and all that was fine, but tell me what to ‘DO’?
… Is that all you wanted to know? Sure here it is…(a lot of the stuff I
will mention here I haven’t found in reference articles at times but I
feel they are very important)
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Lets start of
with one, getting your partners name right (elementary Watson it might
seem) … cant tell you how many people have danced over three dances with
the same person and then called them by their friend’s sister’s pet
armadillo’s name. I have done it too
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Make no
references about your partners body … Most people are generally
uncomfortable about conversations about their body especially before and
after they are going to be touched by you… |
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Dance Floor =
1000 square feet; Partners feet = 0.5 square feet … The disparity in
numbers is completely misleading … the chances of stepping on your
partners toes is much more than you can imagine despite the fact that
they occupy a negligible amount of area of the full floor |
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Did I bother
asking you whether you like a particular move or not? Or did I bother
asking you whether you had a drink or not? Or did I bother finding out
what i should or not do? Did I bother talking to you?! |
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Ok so your
partner danced really badly…Well, if she was really that bad then the
least you could have done while leaving the floor was tell her that she
was amazing and that you would love to dance really soon with her…and
ACTUALLY go back and dance with her…and this isn’t a typo…see what a
statement like that did to a dancer like me. Two benefits of this …1.she
loves you for it because she KNOWS she cant dance that well and 2.You
get better …cant explain why…but its always easier to dance with someone
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Thousands of
articles on hygiene…body odor, mouth odor, under-arm odor, sweat, palm
odor, odor-where-you-didn’t-think-it-would-exist odor, the works …And
you don’t need a sex and relationships magazine to tell you what to do
about it. |
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Well, there is
also the mechanics of compensation but like I said lets leave that for a
later time. Just remember that if your partner is as tall as your
friendly neighborhood supermodel then leave your classy Japanese lady
footwork at home. |
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Anand Majumdar
is a teacher of Latin American, Standard Ballroom, Salsa, and Tango
Dancing based out of Mumbai, India. He is a also a DJ and Fashion
and Portfolio photographer.
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Anand Majumdar
Phone:
+91-22-24930950, 24968339, 24942517
www.learnsalsa.in
Email:
info@learnsalsa.in
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